Once upon a time there was a rich King who had four wives. He loved
the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to
the finest of delicacies. He gave her nothing but the best. He also
loved the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to
neighboring kingdoms. However, he feared that one day she would leave
him for another. He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confidante and
was always kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the
King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would help him
get through the difficult times. The King's 1st wife was a very loyal
partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and
kingdom , but he did not love her. Although she loved him deeply, he
hardly took notice of her!
One day, the King fell ill and he knew his time was short. He thought of
his luxurious life and wondered, "I now have four wives with me, but
when I die, I'll be all alone. "Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I
have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and
showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me
and keep me company?" "No way!", replied the 4th wife, and she walked
away without another word. Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into
his heart. The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved
you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep
me company?" "No!", replied the 3rd wife. "Life is too good! When you
die, I'm going to remarry!" His heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I have always turned to you for help and
you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me
and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!",
replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your
grave." Her answer came like a bolt of lightning, and the King was
devastated. Then a voice called out: "I'll leave with you and follow you
no matter where you go." The King looked up, and there was his first
wife. She was so skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect.
Greatly grieved, the King said, "I should have taken much better care of
you when I had the chance!"
In truth, we all have 4 wives in our lives: Our 4th wife is our body. No
matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it
will leave us when we die. Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and
wealth. When we die, it will all go to others. Our 2nd wife is our
family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for us, the
furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
And our 1st wife is our Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth,
power and pleasures of the world. However, our Soul is the only
thing that will follow us wherever we go. Cultivate, strengthen
and cherish it now, for it is the only part of us that will follow us to
the throne of God and continue with us throughout Eternity.